Let's say after a few weeks or months(probably a month)....dude stops texting like before, the call reduces to 2x per week. This is a guy that has been calling at least 10x in a week, he sends you messages a few times in a day, he sends a message when he wakes up, when he's about to pee, when he's eating or about to drive out, probably he almost had an accident and you were the first person he told about it(cos you're important), he even sent you a message about how he saw a girl that looked exactly like you and his brain stopped working for sometime cos his heart skipped a bit and all the sweet rubbish guys say these days.
Now what happened?? Why the sudden change? Could there be another girl out there? You probably have thought to yourself that maybe it could be yourself? And you're actually right, maybe it's you!
Here are six simple reasons why he's not calling back and probably don't want anything to do with you again....
- You're not what he thought you were; Yes, some girls live fake lives. With this computer age, most guys actually join some social media app trying to hook up with a decent girl to settle down with, maybe they're busy with work so this happens to be the only option since they can't go out. And you unfortunately happened to be the unlucky one. You know how we girls like to look good on social media, the new signature on most girls' social media bio is 'Jesus Lover', most of us would even post really nice pics and quote a scripture(maybe this attracted him to the girl) Judging from your pictures, you look good and neat and this was what attracted this guy to you. On getting to know you, this guy finds out that you're just fake(everything including your teeth is fake, maybe you use whiteners in pictures). You probably are the dirtiest girl he has ever met unlike in pictures, maybe you don't even know anything about the scriptures you post. Like, everything is just fake except the fact that you're female(sometimes, it may be the opposite). Maybe you're not fake, maybe you're just PHOTOGENIC, some of us look prettier in pictures and it's not our fault. He's just attracted for the wrong reasons.
- You're materialistic; I know he asked you to always tell him what you wanted because he was ever willing to provide. Honestly speaking, most girls are opportunist, they would only call you when they need something from you. Guys need to be wiser here, this is because most girls may demand something really pricy just to scare you away, you just have to know. But most times, these greedy girls that probably have never used a smartphone would demand for a diamond studded iPhone or any other expensive phones. The guys may(not) buy it, but don't be surprised when he starts withdrawing from you. After all he got you some fancy pricy things and you lost the priceless guy, that's all you wanted anyways.
- Sex; Maybe that was all he ever wanted and if it meant him spending so much on you just to get it, so be it(just like in 2. above, most greedy girls fall for this). He's moved on and you should as well. Just be wiser next time and try asking God for spirit of discernment. Or on the other hand, that's all you want and he probably wants something serious. Or, maybe that's what it all was, and suddenly you want something serious. It could be that he wants it but you're not ready to give him what he wants so he finds some other person who would(don't worry over guys like this)
- You talk a lot; It's okay to talk and all but when you do this all the time, it gets old and frustrating and annoying. Some ladies can talk nonstop for 20 minutes, they only stop to take a deep breathe or gulp down some water and then continue.....world stop!! How in the world do you expect him to keep calling? Isn't the credit bought with money? Worse, you probably might have been talking about a type of ant or any other animal that produces gold when you scream its name.....Arrant nonsense, total rubbish! All those minutes wasted and not a single sense was made. If I was the guy, I won't call back after a day. Guys also want a girl who can listen to them when they talk....try listening more!
- You're Immature; Most guys may like mature(mentally speaking) women while others may not. The truth is, majority of guys won't want to deal with someone that's childish all way round. Let's say I'm the guy and it's my birthday after a few weeks of meeting you and you got me a gift, time to open this big gift wrapped in colourful papers. I've been here tearing the gift paper for almost 20 minutes and I'm yet to get to the main thing and finally I get to a medium sized box, opens it, only to find five small balls each wrapped in different colours. Now I'm excited, I open the first one, it's a boiled egg, I laugh cos it's funny, and I turn to ask you politely if the rest were eggs and you said, 'no hun, keep opening', I open the second one and it's an onion........babe, I'm slapping you till you die since you want to play childish. And even if you don't die and end up in the hospital, I'm following you there, I will slap you into comma. Better not think of waking up cos we're still playing the childish game.
- Your moodswings; This may scare a lot of good guys away probably because they don't know when to call you cos most of the time, you're in a bad mood and may take it out on them. This always gets them confused as to who or what is causing your sudden change of mood. They often wonder whether they're the cause. Only a patient and understanding guy can stay and most guys aren't.
